tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post6333059506222963719..comments2023-10-26T02:56:20.239-07:00Comments on Shameless Self-Promotions: Haters.f*bomb.http://www.blogger.com/profile/16995465654424549297noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-69922770561744301442007-06-17T10:52:00.000-07:002007-06-17T10:52:00.000-07:00Also, for the record- the situation which brought ...Also, for the record- the situation which brought up this whole controversy was a relationship that spanned "15 dates." <BR/>To me, 15 dates equals probably about 2, maybe 3 weeks. If it spans more than several months, I wouldn't even consider it dating. I'd consider it "friends" or "someone who asks me out when we don't have anything better to do."f*bomb.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16995465654424549297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-43628508929355700772007-06-17T10:51:00.000-07:002007-06-17T10:51:00.000-07:00So do you ever bring up the break up talk if you c...So do you ever bring up the break up talk if you can tell that she's the one pulling away?<BR/><BR/>I don't think there's a woman out there who would object to communication on any level...I'm just wondering if it's better for the MAN to bring it up?f*bomb.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16995465654424549297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-86693920038566366892007-06-16T20:46:00.000-07:002007-06-16T20:46:00.000-07:00I'd much rather know where her head is at if thing...I'd much rather know where her head is at if things are ending. I'm not one to part ways and never say a word about it. Sure, it may be uncomfortable, but you usually just have to do it the one time and then viola! it's over and done with.<BR/><BR/>Having been on the other end of partly-formed relationships and getting partial endings from women I've adored (the past couple I <I>really</I> dated,Dainon.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13336123090037373810noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-16644171324598050922007-06-14T20:29:00.000-07:002007-06-14T20:29:00.000-07:00um, Anonymous? If you don't like it, you can alway...um, Anonymous? If you don't like it, you can always write your own blog.<BR/><BR/>I would appreciate knowing the perspective of my MALE FRIENDS. I'm simply seeking the truth:<BR/><BR/>Do men lie when they provide "closure"?f*bomb.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16995465654424549297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-36090764133012650872007-06-14T19:07:00.001-07:002007-06-14T19:07:00.001-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-44873084427332748092007-06-14T19:07:00.000-07:002007-06-14T19:07:00.000-07:00Can we say, "beating a dead horse?" Let's let thi...Can we say, "beating a dead horse?" Let's let this topic die....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-33486252164450337842007-06-14T18:42:00.000-07:002007-06-14T18:42:00.000-07:00My point in asking MEN what they think is that I h...My point in asking MEN what they think is that I have the hunch most men would rather simply let things dissipate naturally than have a whole overhaul talk about ending things. And I'm wondering if THEY are ever the ones to bring up "the talk" and if (when they DO talk about it)...Are they lying? Or do they appreciate the "closure" in the same way that the women do?<BR/><BR/>I'm not saying I f*bomb.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16995465654424549297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-53487319667443003672007-06-14T10:25:00.000-07:002007-06-14T10:25:00.000-07:00yes, im a guy, and I think that most women like th...yes, im a guy, and I think that most women like the way i deal with them (except when I classify them as an ahole). I'm over this too. I don't know you, but who knows we have mutual friends and I'll may run into you sometime. Have a nice end to your week.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-59175241014247084832007-06-14T09:03:00.000-07:002007-06-14T09:03:00.000-07:00Wow! This is getting intense...Everyone deals with...Wow! This is getting intense...<BR/><BR/>Everyone deals with break ups differently. Fact is, there is a right and wrong way to approach someone without attacking them. That seems more the issue here...rachel leehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11053426346942305587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-60366949006512959252007-06-14T09:00:00.000-07:002007-06-14T09:00:00.000-07:00i agree that it's a situational thing. you have to...i agree that it's a situational thing. you have to do what you feel works best for that particular situation. and if you know someone wants/needs closure, avoiding them is not cool, but if neither party seeks that out, why go there unnecessarily? anyway, not to add fuel to the fire, but i think it's very uncool to post things on here anonymously and attack farrah on HER OWN BLOG. but good that carolinesbakeshophttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13270238523258646514noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-79694406909518824962007-06-14T05:41:00.000-07:002007-06-14T05:41:00.000-07:00Amen, Mike. AMEN.I've always thought that (especi...Amen, Mike. AMEN.<BR/><BR/>I've always thought that (especially when men are concerned) ACTIONS speak louder than words- we don't need to say we're exclusive when we're already spending all our time together. We don't need to say things won't work out because- well (in my situations)- there were lifestyles and attitudes that were not going to change. And I don't think you can really change f*bomb.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16995465654424549297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-55665783287800845952007-06-14T02:45:00.000-07:002007-06-14T02:45:00.000-07:00After a sincere apology, I think that "Anonymous" ...After a sincere apology, I think that "Anonymous" deserves a reprieve.Jaredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09084849426530906803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-54724375604681005162007-06-14T02:41:00.000-07:002007-06-14T02:41:00.000-07:00What it all boils down to is being mature about ho...What it all boils down to is being mature about how you handle things in regards to a break-up. Each relationship should be handled uniquely. Follow your feelings and the spirit. Have a general regard for others feelings and you will be fine. It is not always appropriate to walk away and let things "fizzle", nor is it always appropriate to have the "talk". Only you and your partner can get Jaredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09084849426530906803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-78575247133674641932007-06-13T23:37:00.000-07:002007-06-13T23:37:00.000-07:00I'm sorry you felt that my comments were a persona...I'm sorry you felt that my comments were a personal attack on you. I shouldn't have used your name in my comments, nor used ahole to describe people who follow your line of thought on backing off. I'm new at blogging and realized afterwards that it was innapropriate of me to use your name in my arguments. My comments were basically a venting of frustration, speaking from bad experiences ive Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-58398203207282921662007-06-13T23:29:00.000-07:002007-06-13T23:29:00.000-07:00I don't think any one man can answer it for men in...I don't think any one man can answer it for men in general- just like you disagree with women on this.<BR/><BR/>I don't think your means of ending relationships is wrong <I>for you</I> because you aren't someone who feels a compelling need to vocally define things. You were in a relationship without defining it as such- both sides understood. Your relationship ended without having to define it Frozen Okiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13736230483366776391noreply@blogger.com