tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post976972154993343653..comments2023-10-26T02:56:20.239-07:00Comments on Shameless Self-Promotions: Easy Out.f*bomb.http://www.blogger.com/profile/16995465654424549297noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-6987742051486787022007-06-13T17:48:00.000-07:002007-06-13T17:48:00.000-07:00That is probably the first time the concept of a "...That is probably the first time the concept of a "break up talk" has ever made sense to me...<BR/><BR/>As far as practice goes...f*bomb.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16995465654424549297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-61239215995500921032007-06-13T15:38:00.000-07:002007-06-13T15:38:00.000-07:00i sort of disagree. why do breakups have to either...i sort of disagree. why do breakups have to either be avoidance or tears and cursing? maybe it's cause i'm a girl, but i want it to be spoken. it can be over the phone, but the fade away i think is dishonest. you set a precedence with someone then you just fade out, most likely making them think they did something wrong. it can be hurtful, and if they've had bad experiences, will most likely carolinesbakeshophttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13270238523258646514noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-75804722702831320582007-06-12T17:59:00.000-07:002007-06-12T17:59:00.000-07:00um...Congratulations, Dainon?Anyway.I don't "mind"...um...Congratulations, Dainon?<BR/><BR/>Anyway.<BR/>I don't "mind" defining things, if HE is the one to bring it up. I'm just not the sort to go around putting labels on anything...let alone my relationship with people.<BR/><BR/>I figure that actions speak louder than words. This seems especially true of men (gentlemen, confirm?). As in, I don't feel the need to define "dating" when I'm f*bomb.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16995465654424549297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-86892234680918243152007-06-12T12:18:00.000-07:002007-06-12T12:18:00.000-07:00I like Kory, too. Guys usually need to be talked i...I like Kory, too. Guys usually need to be talked into a relationship, you know. I learned that from Chris Rock. Kudos to you for already knowing that.<BR/><BR/>Man, Farrah, you sound like me, which ultimately makes me the asshole. I've accepted that, though. Years ago. <BR/><BR/>I come at relationships pretty casually most of the time, so I don't much mind the revolving door approach. I don't Dainon.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13336123090037373810noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-55361949580089670842007-06-12T08:54:00.000-07:002007-06-12T08:54:00.000-07:00I keep hearing this about HOUSE. I do. Plus, I'v...I keep hearing this about HOUSE. I do. Plus, I've been in love with Robert Sean Leonard since 1985. So. <BR/><BR/>In response to something someone accused me of in Bree's blog:<BR/><BR/>It's true. If I were a man, you'd say I was an @$$hole. Thankfully, I'm NOT a man, and anyone who has met me knows I always have the best interest of others at heart.<BR/><BR/>When I walk away, I figure it'sf*bomb.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16995465654424549297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-45514917500195553242007-06-12T08:35:00.000-07:002007-06-12T08:35:00.000-07:00Brent wanted to let it fade, he tried- but I would...Brent wanted to let it fade, he tried- but I wouldn't let him. I guess in one aspect it proves the point that one party has to be willing to fight. Brent wasn't willing at all, I had to open his eyes to what he was passing up. (And He's darn lucky I did! :)<BR/><BR/>I agree, if some one can't see how absolutely fabulous you are- they're an idiot, and it's a good thing you found out the easy way.Salt H2Ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13530132008817346271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-5147084034362744042007-06-12T08:24:00.000-07:002007-06-12T08:24:00.000-07:00Dubious-I have realized that I am, in every sense ...Dubious-<BR/>I have realized that I am, in every sense of the definition, a menace to society.<BR/>As I've said before, I'd be willing to give up my ways if I met someone who was actually worth committing to. No insult to the boys I've been with- but they were "boys," and we never had any chance anyway (which I'm always honest about from the start- so fair's fair).<BR/><BR/>The ONLY bad endings f*bomb.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16995465654424549297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-74582845721637054262007-06-12T02:53:00.000-07:002007-06-12T02:53:00.000-07:00I used this strategy for years and it totally wor...I used this strategy for years and it totally works if your goal is to avoid uncomfortable breakups. I always tried not to define anything so I rarely had to worry about going through bad or awkward breakups (I'm still on good terms with all my exes).<BR/>Of course I've also never had to worry about planning a wedding because by never committing to the point that a "breakup talk" would be Dubious Brownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04268449154223940373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-84350475787097235312007-06-12T00:26:00.000-07:002007-06-12T00:26:00.000-07:00Farrah? Whoa. I wandered exactly three links awa...Farrah? Whoa. I wandered exactly three links away from my blog and landed here. It's me, Rachel from Novato circa 1994. And can I tell you how totally excited I am to have stumbled your way? So, um, what have you been up to for the last 13 years? Right now I am sitting on your hand-me-down chair that went to your old cool black desk. Wierd. Email me: ragalyean@hotmail.comLeft-Handedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05635327823530813335noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-19740663640700672422007-06-11T18:21:00.000-07:002007-06-11T18:21:00.000-07:00Yeah, Kory. Because the glamourous life of Friday...Yeah, Kory. Because the glamourous life of Friday nights watching Law & Order reruns and falling asleep on the couch with cookie dough in your mouth is sooo much better than marriage.<BR/><BR/>Quite on the contrary. You prove my point exactly. You and Brett were willing to fight hard enough to keep trying. I've never met someone I loved enough (or who cared enough for me) to work harder for.f*bomb.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16995465654424549297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-61746673377804712632007-06-11T14:46:00.000-07:002007-06-11T14:46:00.000-07:00Kory - I like you. You are amazing. Could you blog...Kory - I like you. You are amazing. Could you blog that for me on my blog so that all the 33 year old idiots sitting around in easy chairs will start realizing that sometimes you have to get out and run a marathon for the girl you want. Sometimes you don't even have to run a marathon. You just have to walk a few damn feet. <BR/><BR/>Farrah, you and I are like Paul and James on this one. Grace or Breelzebubhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16641364609632148176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-72421515298328999742007-06-11T13:54:00.000-07:002007-06-11T13:54:00.000-07:00But be careful if you do. You could end up marrie...But be careful if you do. You could end up married, going to bed at 9:30pm on weekends and living in SALT LAKE!Salt H2Ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13530132008817346271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6239298816780276829.post-28483001389983994152007-06-11T13:46:00.000-07:002007-06-11T13:46:00.000-07:00Farrah, I have to disagree here, if you find somet...Farrah, I have to disagree here, if you find something you want, fight for it, and if you think they don't want you- you don't know why. It could fizzle for a number of reasons, just like a Sale-<BR/><BR/>Key Example: Brent. I woke up one morning and felt the relationship fading. AND I was pretty ticked off, because this guy SHOULD have been in love with me. (Good Self-Confidence will take youSalt H2Ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13530132008817346271noreply@blogger.com