Monday, November 19, 2007

Once.

Should I be insulted if someone offered me a one-night stand?
What if that one-night stand was offered with frequent one-night stands as friends?
Since when did commitment become such a big deal to me?
Does this mean I'm growing up? Or just that I'm no interested?

10 comments:

Tannerama said...

I would be flattered... but, that's just me.

brent said...

Nah, commitment IS a big deal. Commitment is a one-night stand times a nafinnity.

So, be a little flattered, I think, at the offer, because hey, they find you're hot enough to boink, but just remember, an eternal commitment is that much more desirable, no?

The fact a girl would want to stay with me forever would be WAY more attractive than being a one-night boy toy, ya dig?

caroline said...

that's the first time i've seen the words "boink" and "eternal commitment" in the same sentence. kudos.

brent said...

Eh, what can I tell ya? 'Tis an art, my friend.

f*bomb. said...

Geez! um...I'm not talking "eternal commitment," either. But if I make out with someone, it's probably because I like him enough to see him again and becaus I'm secure enough in our relationship to know we're going to be seeing each other again.
(I want to say something about rolling over to wake you, but let's just leave it at that.)

brent said...

yeah, I exaggerated about the eternal commitment thing. My bad.

Salt H2O said...

Let's face it, your a good looking female. Most single men are interested in a one nighter with you-

I'd be ticked that I was apparently hot enough to hook up with but not hot enough to date.

f*bomb. said...

Really? Because it kind of felt like being asked to waste time on someone who didn't care enough about me to think I deserved a man that actually appreciated me for anything more than "hotness." And even then- if that's all that is required, all he needs is a warm body. I'm just not interested in being just warm.

random jen said...

I'm with you, farrah. I wouldn't be too impressed if I got an offer like that. In fact, i'd probably be a little disgusted.

darcy fabulous said...

Boink... baaaah ha ha! I've had similar offers in the past, and I'll tell you what I do: If he's cute enough to make out with, I pretend to be offended that he assumed that a pure-as-the-amber-waves-of-grain girl like myself would do such a thing. Then, I make out with him.

...Is that so bad? :)

Actually I'm kidding. I'm starting to realize that non-committal affection not only DOESN'T get my closer to where I want to be (a relationship with eternal potential), it actually pulls me farther away from that goal.